Lost love

"Child, why are you crying?"

"Because I lost my love..."

"Do you love him?"

"Yes, I do. Very much..."

"Does he love you?"

"He did. But not any more..."

"Child, he should be the one crying. He is the one who lost someone who loves him. You only lost someone who doesn't love you..."



I don't know why I suddenly miss my ex so much... Perhaps too much, considering the above.

Your own happiness

(Liberty Times)

"You always expect someone else to give you something.

Maybe it's a praise, maybe it's a gift, maybe it's a smile, maybe it's a relationship.

Ultimately, you always expect to get self assurance from something someone gives you.

When you don't get it, you're moody and unhappy; after you get it, you feel like something is missing.

Darling, you know something? No matter whether you get it or don't get it, expecting something from someone will definitely give you suffering, because that is giving away your right to happiness.

What someone can give you, someone can also take back.

So, other than yourself, who is your source of happiness?

So, darling, don't expect to get anything from another person.

When you don't expect others to make you happy, you can get real happiness."

Love is easy

"You say you love him, but you have tears in your eyes, your mind and emotions are exhausted.

If a relationship requires great energy in order to maintain it, even to the extent that you empty out your heart, then this relationship must be wrong.

Darling, to love someone should not be so tiring.

Love should be able to lift you upwards, take you flying, allow you to feel light and easy, and feel free, and not drag you downwards."

Farmer's philosophy

(translation mine, Liberty Times)

"Because you want to know the answer, your heart is racing rapidly, hoping to immediately get a positive result.

 But, everything has its time, everything has its natural course. When the time has not come yet, you will not really understand.

This is like when you plant an apple tree today, you cannot expect to immediately bear apples tomorrow. An apple tree must undergo a process in order to bear sweet and juicy fruits. Time will mature an innocent relationship, time will also terminate a troublesome problem, but you must give time time.

Darling, just remember, anything that is worth having is worth waiting for. This is a farmer's philosophy, and is also the truth about time."